For the past two days I’ve been sick. I don’t think there’s an organic reason. I think it’s directly related to anxiety. This was the weekend five years ago that I struggled to find a reason to continue living. It was the weekend after the nonconsensual experience with a person I knew.
Then today a friend of mine and I went to an event I actually attended five years ago this very same weekend. I was aware of this when I agreed to go with my friend this weekend. I thought it would be a way to make a new and better memory. But then it was very hot outside, and heat is a trigger for me. I think between the heat, and the event itself my body just freaked, and I became ill.
And, getting sick is a whole other trigger for me. I had to tell all the peeps the following:
“We are not dying. We are just sick. Yes, it is unpleasant, but we are very likely not going to die from this. This is no one’s fault. No one is in trouble. No one is bad because we got sick. Let me repeat … No one is in trouble.”
It’s a balancing when I get sick because I have to take care of myself, and then I have to tend to others as well. Much like being a parent that gets sick when the rest of the family is also ill.
Though I think we’re finally coming around the bend from the sickness.
Hang in there and feel better soon.
I could relate to this. Most of the physical symptoms I feel are related to trauma in someway. I hope you feel better soon.
I’ve been ill the past week too, constant headache…and my trauma anniversary is in 2 weeks also 😦